My little boy turned 1 years old! Where has the time gone? I always ask that but seriously where does it go? It seems like I wake up and months have passed instead of hours. Enough of that...we had friends and family over to the house and celebrate Reid's monster party in the barn. We decided on a cook out with hamburgers, hotdogs, veggie trays, chips, beans, coleslaw, fruit, and of course yummy monster cake. I'm so thankful that I have a mother in law that I can tell what I want and she is so good at being able to create just that in her cakes!

     Reid was such a big boy today too! His manners were spot on and boy howdy did he dig into his smasher cake! It was so funny watching him because he kept looking at Jason and I like, "Are you sure I can use my hands? I'm not going to get into trouble for the mess, right?" I love my beautiful boy who keeps me on my toes! My heart is full!

   

Allison's 6th Birthday

First of all, say WHAT?! I cannot believe my baby girl is already 6 years old and in Kindergarten to boot! I spent several months pinning tons of girly party ideas on Pinterest for her to choose from. I had envisioned lots of pink tulle, dainty cupcakes, girls in cute little party dresses, etc. Needless to say, she dismissed all my ideas in lieu of a Halloween themed birthday party. Sometimes she surprises the heck out of me! The party turned out really great. We started with a fun craft that had kids making green monsters.

The kids then played several games. One was called Mummy Wrap where the kids worked in teams to wrap a friend in an entire roll of toilet paper. The quickest team won. They also played Fake Out where all the kids sat down and tried their absolute best not to smile while 1 person had to do their best to make them smile either by singing, making goofy faces, etc.

Then it was on to cake! Grandma Schneeberger made Allison's cake this year. The writing says, "Our little Witch is 6!" We ended the party with presents and of course outdoor play time!

On July 9, 2012 Allison broke her leg. It's something we don't talk about because it's really hard for Jason. To make a long story short, Jason was carrying Alli to the back of the pickup with the intention of sitting her down to tie her shoe so that she wouldn't fall. Somehow, he slipped and he and Alli fell down a bar ditch. Jason landed on Allison's leg and it broke in two spots. Now obviously, we all know that this was a freak accident but because Jason is such a caregiver and protector, he has really struggled with this. However, for me anyways, this event is more of a paradox.

Fast forward almost two years....

I can really see a difference in how our daughter lives her life due to this accident. She's always been so scared to try anything. In fact, she often would ask, "Will I get hurt?" But now, she has truly cowgirl upped! No longer is she letting fear control her, she's accepting her fears and doing it anyway! (Yes, as I write this I tear up but with happy tears! My heart overflows with pride in our daughter.) Her recovery journey was long, 1 surgery and three casts, equalling  3 1/2 months total to be exact. It was itchy, painful, terrifying (having a saw blade coming at you on three occasions would be a bit much for a 5 year old) and at times she was embarrassed. Afraid of what kids at school would say. Would they make fun of her? When she started Kindergarten, she was still in a wheel chair because her first cast was too heavy for her to lift using the walker. Well, she made it and it turned out better than we could have ever hoped for. 

Our family was so touched and blessed by the community we live in. Our friends, neighbors, and church family rallied behind us with endless support. It gave us a real sense of belonging and acceptance. What was more humbling, was the love and compassion that these people showed our daughter. Everyone was so good to her...prayers, gifts to pass the time, words of encouragement, intentional motives to make her feel confident...And Alli herself changed so much. She finally got over her fear of the water and passed level 1 swimming lessons! That same summer, she said goodbye to her training wheels and is now quite the little speedy Gonzalez on her bicycle. She's playing machine pitch softball, climbing hay bales, working cattle, and numerous other things. I see so much more confidence in her and an inner strength that's unbelievable for a person her age. I pray that this is a life experience that she will recall and draw strength from. When I think about this time, it reminds me that God's in control, not me, and that He has plans for my girl. I trust Him. So, breaking her leg wasn't ideal but, I can see that it has built some great character in her, and I believe that's exactly what God wanted for Alli. 

Keeping wrapped and still waiting for our 1st doctor appt.

Alli and Hello Kitty getting ready for surgery

Going home with cast #1.

Getting our of surgery

All the rodeo princess/queens rallying behind Alli

Cuddling in cast #2

Off it goes....

Finally, cast #3 

Nothing is stopping this girl!

Learning how to shoot a bow!

You looking' at me?!

I'm finally getting around to posting about our Christmas season! It was our best family Christmas so far (maybe because of the addition of Reid). We didn't bake as much as we usually do, in fact, I didn't bake any sugar cookies. Gasp! I know but in all fairness I was too busy playing and working. We did make some delicious peanut butter stuffed pretzels dipped in milk chocolate. Our family spent more time doing activities together this year and that really made the holidays feel special. One such activity was a family Christmas Tree. The tree was painted with Reid's feet, Allison's hands, and Jason and I's fingerprints.

Finished Project

Christmas Reindeer

We also put up our Christmas tree together. Usually I do this but our tree is so large that it's overwhelming. In addition, my OCD kicks in and I obsess about every branch being "just perfect." So it was nice that Jason and Allison put the tree up and Allison and I decorated it. Reid watched us with a look that asked, "What in the world are you doing?" and "I wonder what will happen if I tug on the tree?" Here's a picture of the kiddos in front of the finished project. If you're wondering why the stockings were hung on the end table with care, it's because I didn't have any other place for them!  When I look at this picture my eye is automatically drawn to the window. It looks very dreary and cold. This was a day we actually got a light snow dusting! That's saying something since it only snowed twice this year. Compared to last year and the numerous snow days, it felt like we moved to another region!

For the holidays, we went to my sister in laws home in Mulvane, KS. She was due to have a baby any time so we all thought it best to go to her! She crocheted Allison a beautiful red scarf and gave Reid an OSU hat & mittens. The kids also received several fun toys and lots of candy.

Reid and Papa Dennis

Opening presents

That same day, we traveled onto Sawyer, KS to have Christmas dinner with my family. Once again the kids received plenty of great toys, clothes, and had a blast playing with cousins. I had to laugh because Allison was so dainty at her aunt's house. She wore her dress and nicely played with all the girl cousins. (At this time, there weren't any boy cousins.) But once she got to my sister's house she was all tom-boy! Off went the dress and on went the jeans and t-shirt. She was running wild with all the boys. (Here there aren't any girl cousins.)

     I really love that my kids adore each other. Allison will stop doing whatever she's doing if Reid wants to play with her and she's the first person Reid wants to see in the mornings.  Both my kiddos love books which is a major bonus since I love reading. Allison has found that she enjoys snuggling up with Reid on her little couch and reading books to him.  I just love the picture of the kids snuggled up reading. I had been folding laundry and afterwards went looking for kids when I stumbled upon this beautiful site!












During the Christmas holiday, we were a bit overstimulated! I was trying to pack the car and do a million and one things while Allison played like a crazy girl and Reid decided it was nap time and became fussy. Before I could get to him, Allison stopped what she was doing to go hold her little bro'. She started singing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" to him and patting his back. In a few short moments the cutie pie was asleep! (Won't she be the best Mama someday?!)

Besides snugglin' and reading they do play well together! Reid loves to swing and Alli acts like a monkey all over the swingset! Since this winter has been especially warm, I've had lots of opportunities to spend outdoors playing with the kids. They both loved to be pulled in their little red wagon, we go for long walks on the road, and examine every little bit of nature that we find of interest.

     

     My hopes for Reid is that he will grow into the kind of man that sets his own standards, far exceeding than those around him. That he will look injustice in the eyes and battle until he conquers. That he will love with his whole being and be a good man that leads by example. A man that isn't ashamed to ask for help and one that admits when he's wrong. But above all else, a man of faith. 

1. Faith. Someday he will be afraid, nervous, heartbroken, lost, or just need you, and you won't be able to be there. Give him something to turn to when it feels like he is alone, so that he knows he will never be alone.

2. Chivalry: A woman may be as capable as a man, but she is, in fact, a lady. Brave the elements, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, hold the door, introduce her to people, This shows you’re paying attention to a lady’s feelings and your willing to go out of your way for her. Simply put, that’s class!

3. Gentleness: like with babies, crops, animals, and people's feelings.

4. Philanthropy: Give him the opportunity to help others and volunteer. Encourage him to “save the world.” Be a role model for this showing how to help without the need for recognition.
   

5. Let him lose. Losing sucks. Everybody isn't always a winner. Even if you want to say, "You're a winner because you tried," don't.  He doesn't feel like a winner, he feels sad and crappy and disappointed.  And that's a good thing, because sometimes life also sucks, no matter how hard we try to make it not suck for our kids. Teach him to never give up.

6. Role Model: Make sure he has examples of powerful men and women. Examples of men with big muscles and women who are beautiful will surround him from birth. Make sure he also knows about people for their intelligence (Benjamin Franklin, Marie Curie), their pen (Gary Paulsen, Charlotte Bronte), their determination (Cesar Chavez, Susan B. Anthony), and ideas (The Wright Brothers, Florence Nightingale), their integrity (George Washington, Harriet Tubman), and fearlessness (Neil Armstrong, Nelly Bly). Most importantly, MOM and DAD. Be who you want him to be.
   

7. Let his dad teach him… without telling him how to do it the “right way.” Someday in his grown-up man heart and mind, he will believe that his dad knows all the answers. This will be how you stay connected to what is happening in your son’s life when he’s too busy to chat with you. Because he will call his dad for answers, and his dad will secretly come and ask you.

8. Teach him how to do laundry… And load the dishwasher, iron, and cook. He may not always choose to do it. He may not ever have to do it. But someday his wife will thank you and he’ll be a better man for it.

9. Love:  In the bible, God commands a man to love his wife. This won’t come easy, may not feel natural but it’s key to a happy marriage happy life. When she says, “nothing’s wrong” keep asking! If you accidentally make her cry, hold her; NEVER NEVER leave her alone. Tell her she’s beautiful when she’s not dolled up, listen to her and hear her words, care enough to get to know her (she won’t stay the person you married forever), forgive her when she makes mistakes. Make a choice to be there.
   

10. Treasure the time and drink it in: The amazing day comes and he’s born, then you blink and he’s 5. Don’t get caught up in having perfect meals, perfect homes, or doing the “one more thing” before you and he get to snuggle or play together. These things will always be there, he won’t. Too soon he’ll feel confident enough to live on his own, generous enough to share his love with a wife, and loving enough to be there for his own children. 

You'll never be too old for kisses!